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Elaine A. Wheeler

November 7, 1934 - January 8, 2019
Visitation
Location Not Available
Friday 1/11, 4:00 pm - 7:00 pm
St. Katharine Drexel Catholic Church-Beaver Dam
511 S. Spring St.
Beaver Dam, WI 53916
Saturday 1/12, 10:00 am - 11:00 am
Mass
St. Katharine Drexel Catholic Church-Beaver Dam
511 S. Spring St.
Beaver Dam, WI 53916
Saturday 1/12, 11:00 am - 12:00 pm

Elaine A. Wheeler, 84, of Beaver Dam passed away on Tuesday, January 8, 2019 at the Charleston House in Beaver Dam with her family by her side. Elaine was born the daughter of Carl and Freida (Zemp) Bachofen on November 7, 1934 in Waupun. She was a 1952 graduate of Beaver Dam High School and a 1956 graduate of UW-La Crosse where she received her B.S. degree in Physical Education. Elaine was married to Mally Dean Wheeler on October 26, 1957 at St. Peter’s Catholic Church in Beaver Dam. Elaine began her teaching career with East DePere, Beaver Dam Junior High and St. Peter’s Catholic School. She retired from Hustisford High School in 1996 after teaching P.E. for 29 years. Elaine was a member of St. Katharine Drexel Catholic Church in Beaver Dam and the Beaver Dam Senior Center. She was also a retired member of both WEAC and NEA. Elaine volunteered with Meals on Wheels, the PALS program, and the Red Cross canteen. Elaine along with her husband ran the concessions stand at the Dodge County Fairgrounds from 1985 – 1996. In her spare time, Elaine enjoyed playing cards, reading and traveling. Elaine is survived by her children: Linda (Casey) Carney of Beaver Dam, Dan (Becky) Wheeler of Beaver Dam, Steve (Lisa) Wheeler of Verona, and Mike (Daun) Wheeler of Madison; eight grandchildren: Mark (Sheri) Schmidt, Danielle (Shawn) Morrissey, Ben (Nicki) Wheeler, Jacqui (Scott) Orlebeke, Kevin (Serena) Braaksma, Cassie Wheeler, Nathan (Allison) Braaksma, and Nicole Wheeler; one step-grandson, Casey (Deanna) Carney; great-grandchildren: Kyle Wood-Wheeler, Derek Morrissey, Brandon Morrissey, Ashton Wheeler, Chayse Wheeler, Carter Schmidt, Hunter Braaksma, Kason Walker, Aubree Zander, and Jackson Braaksma; step-great grandchildren: Baileigh Carney, Emily Carney, Angelina Carney, Caselynn Carney, and Mallory Hagan; sister, Lill (Jerry) Ptaschinski of Beaver Dam; sister-in-law, Kaye Janisch of Beaver Dam; nieces, nephews, other relatives and many friends. She was preceded in death by her parents; her husband Dean in 2004; and her brother, Werner (Ruth) Schmid. A visitation will be held on Friday, January 11, 2019 from 4 p.m. until 7 p.m. at the Koepsell-Murray Funeral Home in Beaver Dam, and also on Saturday, January 12 at St. Katharine Drexel Catholic Church in Beaver Dam from 10 a.m. until 11 a.m. A Mass of Christian Burial will immediately follow at the church with Rev. Mike Erwin officiating. Interment will take place at St. Peter’s Catholic Cemetery in Beaver Dam. Memorials may be directed to the St. Katharine Drexel – Building from our Beliefs Fund or the Alzheimer’s Association. The Wheeler family would like to thank the Charleston House Memory Care staff especially Abby for their care and support.

Visitation
Location Not Available
Friday 1/11, 4:00 pm - 7:00 pm
St. Katharine Drexel Catholic Church-Beaver Dam
511 S. Spring St.
Beaver Dam, WI 53916
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Saturday 1/12, 10:00 am - 11:00 am
Mass
St. Katharine Drexel Catholic Church-Beaver Dam
511 S. Spring St.
Beaver Dam, WI 53916
Map
Saturday 1/12, 11:00 am - 12:00 pm

Elaine A. Wheeler, 84, of Beaver Dam passed away on Tuesday, January 8, 2019 at the Charleston House in Beaver Dam with her family by her side. Elaine was born the daughter of Carl and Freida (Zemp) Bachofen on November 7, 1934 in Waupun. She was a 1952 graduate of Beaver Dam High School andContinue Reading

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Al and Thea(Hansen) Brandt left a message on January 13, 2019:

Our deepest sympathies to the entire Wheeler family.

Maureen and Dick Ferstl left a message on January 12, 2019:

Linda, You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.

Debra Herbst left a message on January 12, 2019:

Im glad I had a chance to see you Linda, but to you and the rest of your family you all have our condolences. Elaine was a good friend to my mom, and a very great lady.

Keith Leistekow left a message on January 11, 2019:

Steve

All that I am, or hope to be, I owe to my mom

I'm sorry for your loss dear friend - what would we do without these special ladies in our lives?

With deepest sympathy
Keith & Meg

Pam Smith left a message on January 11, 2019:

I was privileged to have Mrs. Wheeler as my 'gym' teacher throughout grade school and middle school. I cannot recall her ever getting truly upset at anyone, even when we gave her more than enough reason. She always had a ready smile and loved to see kids learning and having fun.

Peace of mind is a call away. We’re here when you need us most.
Jeanne Behm left a message on January 11, 2019:

Elaine was my daily dose of sunshine everyday I came to the Charleston House to see my dad, we would sit and talk on the comfy couches or over supper almost daily. Her smile would warm my heart and she would assure me to never worry about my dad because she was there watching over him, and helping the staff take care of him. I am going to miss that special lady so much.

Julaine Schulz Schulz left a message on January 10, 2019:

Heart felt condolences. "Mrs. Wheeler" was a bright spot way back in my St Peter grade school days. In more recent years, I found it surprising she still remembered me from those school days. I will always remember her great smile, fun loving personality, and genuine concern for people. Bless you Mrs. Wheeler.

Sherry (Heimerl) Kurtz left a message on January 10, 2019:

My deepest sympathy to you for your loss. You will be in my thoughts and prayers.

Lynn Javoroski left a message on January 10, 2019:

Our family will always remember "Mrs. Wheeler" from the Hustisford schools with great fondness. She was forever smiling and enthusiastic about life. What a wonderful lesson to give your students! Thank you. The Javoroski family.

Nancy Paul left a message on January 10, 2019:

I met Elaine when I moved to Beaver Dam and joined St. Katharine Drexel Parish. Later I lived in her neighborhood. She was a great lady, a good sense of humor, concerned about her family and community, and willing to generously give her time to others. I will miss her. You can be so proud of the life she lived. A great lady indeed.

Mary LaVeau left a message on January 9, 2019:

I was saddened to hear of Mrs. Wheeler's passing. She was my favorite PE teacher at St. Pete's! She was so much fun and such an encouraging teacher! My favorite memory is climbing the rope and touching the ceiling in St. Pete's gym and Mrs. Wheeler cheering me on the entire way up and down. She was the Best! Love and prayers to her family and friends who love and will miss her.
Mary (Arndorfer) LaVeau

Lichty left a message on January 9, 2019:

Graduated from Husty in 74. Lots of laughs in gym class. Mrs. Wheeler was one mean badminton player!! She will be missed. My sympathies to the family.

Mare Hare left a message on January 9, 2019:

When I visited Tuesday, I forgot to thank Elaine for being a great friend making me laugh so much in the teachers' lounge, the carpool, or when we drove together going to retiree lunches. Will miss her humor and her warmth.

Bob and Brenda Meyere left a message on January 9, 2019:

So sorry to hear of Elaine's passing. Our most heartfelt sympathy to the entire Wheeler family.

Koepsell Funeral Home left a message:
Please accept our deepest condolences for your family's loss.
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