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Mary Lane Lysser

December 17, 1927 - March 22, 2008

Mary Lane Lysser passed away peacefully on Saturday, March 22, 2008, at age 80 with her loving family at her bedside.

A memorial gathering will be held on Wednesday, March 26, 2008, at St. John”s United Church of Christ, Monroe, from 10:00 AM until 11:00 AM. A memorial service for Mary Lane will follow on Wednesday, at the church. Inurnment will take place at Greenwood Cemetery, Monroe, WI.

The former Mary Lane Lenacher was born on December 17, 1927, in Monroe, WI to the late R.H. and Marjorie (Fritz) Lenacher. On June 10, 1946 she was united in marriage with William H. Lysser in Dubuque, Iowa. She graduated from Monroe High School and later when managing the Monroe Credit Bureau, attended Indiana University. Mary Lane and Bill lived most of their married life along with raising two children in Monroe. After becoming Arizona Sun birds they retired there for fifteen years and recently returned to Wisconsin. Mary Lane held many positions while working in Monroe, being a “career” woman ahead of her time. She especially enjoyed her position in advertising with the Monroe Evening Times. She felt Monroe was a great place to live and work and was devoted to promoting it to others. Mary Lane served as the President of the Chamber of Commerce in 1979. She and Bill volunteered both prior too and following her presidency, often helping out with events as well as acting as chaperones to the Cheese Day queens that represented Monroe across the state.

Mary Lane was devoted to her family, which was precious to her having lost her own mother at age 5 and then was raised by her grandparents. She specialized in family celebrations and was always planning family trips. Being a member of St. John”s United Church of Christ and singing in the Sanctuary Choir with her husband were important to her. Mary Lane was also a member of the American Legion Auxiliary. She liked being with people and her family and friends will remember Mary Lane and Bill on the dance floor, something they loved doing even well into retirement. While living in Paradise Park in Arizona she actively welcomed newcomers to the park, helping others, organizing events, attending costume parties, and dancing.

Mary Lane is survived by her husband, Bill Lysser, Horicon, her daughter, Vikki Lane (Thomas) Kunstman, Beaver Dam, a grandson, Jonathan William Kunstman, Tallahassee, FL, her dear friends, including Evelyn an Dick Vevia, Sun City, AZ, nieces, and a nephew, other relatives and friends. She was preceded in death by her parents and her beloved son, David.

The family suggests that memorials be made in Mary Lane”s name to Hillside Hospice, 707 S. University Ave., Beaver Dam, WI, 53916, or to St. John”s United Church of Christ, 1724 14th St., Monroe, WI, 53556.

The Murray Funeral Home in Beaver Dam is serving the family. Online condolences may be made on our website at www.MurrayFH.com.

Service Details

Wednesday, March 26th, 2008, 11:00am, St. John’s United Church of Christ-Monroe

Events
There are no events scheduled.

Mary Lane Lysser passed away peacefully on Saturday, March 22, 2008, at age 80 with her loving family at her bedside. A memorial gathering will be held on Wednesday, March 26, 2008, at St. John”s United Church of Christ, Monroe, from 10:00 AM until 11:00 AM. A memorial service for Mary Lane will follow onContinue Reading

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Dan and Barb Gelbach left a message on April 7, 2008:

We were so sorry to hear about Mary Lane. Our sympathies to you and your family at this difficult time.

Dan and Barb Gelbach left a message on April 7, 2008:

We were so sorry to hear about Mary Lane. Our sympathies to you and your family at this difficult time.

Sally Damsgard (Dischler) left a message on March 28, 2008:

Dear Bill, Vicki and Tom: I was saddened by the news of Mary Lane''s passing. Even though I was unable to attend her services, I offer you my sincere condolences. I just wanted to let you know how much Mary Lane meant to me when I was growing up. The Lysser home was sort of a refuge to me in the "storm." Mary Lane was always there to offer a kleenex or a loving hug. She taught me how to trust and would build my confidence by giving me chores and then praise me for my accomplishments...even when I would run to Piggly Wiggly for her and bring her back regular sugar instead of powdered sugar and cabbage instead of lettuce. I would enjoy cleaning for her, even raking her shag carpet in the living room so the nap was perfect. She was so sophisticated to me as a young child, always dressed to perfection. Imagine my surprise as a 14 year old girl being able to sew a dress for Mary Lane and she thought it was perfect. I still remember that peach dress with the flair skirt at the bottom. Mary Lane and Bill would let me mow their big back yard with the riding mower. I always thought that was pretty neat! She taught me how to wrap a present with perfect corners and I would always love to see your Christmas tree. It was a work of art! Most of all, she was so kind and giving. Mary Lane was such an influence to me as a young child and she helped shape me into the woman I am today. I will always cherish her memory in my heart. God bless. Sally Damsgard (Dischler)

Sally Damsgard (Dischler) left a message on March 28, 2008:

Dear Bill, Vicki and Tom: I was saddened by the news of Mary Lane''s passing. Even though I was unable to attend her services, I offer you my sincere condolences. I just wanted to let you know how much Mary Lane meant to me when I was growing up. The Lysser home was sort of a refuge to me in the "storm." Mary Lane was always there to offer a kleenex or a loving hug. She taught me how to trust and would build my confidence by giving me chores and then praise me for my accomplishments...even when I would run to Piggly Wiggly for her and bring her back regular sugar instead of powdered sugar and cabbage instead of lettuce. I would enjoy cleaning for her, even raking her shag carpet in the living room so the nap was perfect. She was so sophisticated to me as a young child, always dressed to perfection. Imagine my surprise as a 14 year old girl being able to sew a dress for Mary Lane and she thought it was perfect. I still remember that peach dress with the flair skirt at the bottom. Mary Lane and Bill would let me mow their big back yard with the riding mower. I always thought that was pretty neat! She taught me how to wrap a present with perfect corners and I would always love to see your Christmas tree. It was a work of art! Most of all, she was so kind and giving. Mary Lane was such an influence to me as a young child and she helped shape me into the woman I am today. I will always cherish her memory in my heart. God bless. Sally Damsgard (Dischler)

Cindi Trimble left a message on March 25, 2008:

Dear Vikki, I''ve been staring at this picture of your mom-remembering the times we spent at your house together and how beautiful she was...and a working mom...what a trailblazer!! I''m thinking of you and your family and wanted you to know you''re in my thoughts and prayers-losing a mother is never easy, no matter the age. I''m thinking of your dad at this time too. May you draw stength from each other. Cindi and family

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Daniel W. Tschudy, Scottsdale, AZ left a message on March 25, 2008:

My condolences to the family and close friends of Mary Lane. I know she will be missed.

CONSTANCE DRIVER left a message on March 25, 2008:

MY DEEPEST SYMPATHY GOES OUT TO ALL OF MARY LANE''S FAMILY. MARY LANE WAS ALWAYS ONE OF MY FATHER''S (JIM DRIVER) FAVORITE PEOPLE! ''A BRIGHT SPOT'' HE WOULD SAY WHENEVER HE SAW HER ...HE WORKED WITH HER THROUGH THE PHONE COMPANY AND KNEW HER SOCIALLY AS WELL. I ALSO GOT TO KNOW HER WHILE I WAS AT THE COMPANY AND WAS ALWAYS AMAZED BY HER BECAUSE SHE WAS ALWAYS SO HAPPY AND UPBEAT....AND BURSTING WITH A TON OF ENERGY! SHE LEAVES BEHIND VERY FOND MEMORIES FOR US AND I KNOW SHE WILL BE DEEPLY MISSED.

Susan A. Dahmen left a message on March 25, 2008:

I was very saddened to hear of the passing of Mary Lane. I feel very privileged to have worked for her and been friends with her. When Mary Lane was President of the Monroe Chamber of Commerce, I was the secretary. We went to many meetings together and worked on Cheese Days together. I really enjoyed her company, her never-ending energy and her positive attitude towards life. She will definitely be remembered for "promoting Monroe," and being a very genuine and giving person. I will miss her...but I know she is in God''s loving care.

Cindi Trimble left a message on March 25, 2008:

Dear Vikki, I''ve been staring at this picture of your mom-remembering the times we spent at your house together and how beautiful she was...and a working mom...what a trailblazer!! I''m thinking of you and your family and wanted you to know you''re in my thoughts and prayers-losing a mother is never easy, no matter the age. I''m thinking of your dad at this time too. May you draw stength from each other. Cindi and family

Daniel W. Tschudy, Scottsdale, AZ left a message on March 25, 2008:

My condolences to the family and close friends of Mary Lane. I know she will be missed.

CONSTANCE DRIVER left a message on March 25, 2008:

MY DEEPEST SYMPATHY GOES OUT TO ALL OF MARY LANE''S FAMILY. MARY LANE WAS ALWAYS ONE OF MY FATHER''S (JIM DRIVER) FAVORITE PEOPLE! ''A BRIGHT SPOT'' HE WOULD SAY WHENEVER HE SAW HER ...HE WORKED WITH HER THROUGH THE PHONE COMPANY AND KNEW HER SOCIALLY AS WELL. I ALSO GOT TO KNOW HER WHILE I WAS AT THE COMPANY AND WAS ALWAYS AMAZED BY HER BECAUSE SHE WAS ALWAYS SO HAPPY AND UPBEAT....AND BURSTING WITH A TON OF ENERGY! SHE LEAVES BEHIND VERY FOND MEMORIES FOR US AND I KNOW SHE WILL BE DEEPLY MISSED.

Susan A. Dahmen left a message on March 25, 2008:

I was very saddened to hear of the passing of Mary Lane. I feel very privileged to have worked for her and been friends with her. When Mary Lane was President of the Monroe Chamber of Commerce, I was the secretary. We went to many meetings together and worked on Cheese Days together. I really enjoyed her company, her never-ending energy and her positive attitude towards life. She will definitely be remembered for "promoting Monroe," and being a very genuine and giving person. I will miss her...but I know she is in God''s loving care.

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